For today’s Sunday Poser, Sadje wants to know…
Do you share your personal information with your friends in real life or on line?
“Personal information”? You mean like my Social Security number, my credit card number, my Medicare number, my driver’s license number, or my bank account number? No, I don’t share that kind of information online. Unless the party asking for that information happens to be a Nigerian prince who needs such information in order to send me a boatload of money or a young, beautiful Russian girl who needs a loan to get to America.
Or by “personal information,” do you mean what’s happening in my life? Well, I blog anonymously, so I am careful with what personal information I share on line. But here comes the ironic part. I probably share more about me on my blog than I share with friends and acquaintances in real life.
How does that work? Well, I’ve made no secret here on my blog that I’m an atheist. But very few people in the real world, aside from my immediate family, know that about me. And anyone who reads my blog knows that I’m liberal in my political orientation. But again, I typically don’t discuss my personal political perspectives with anyone outside of my inner circle of family and very close friends.
And as long as we’re talking about religion and politics, when it comes to sex, that’s nobody’s business but my own (and my wife’s, of course), both online and in the real world.
It is, when I think about it, somewhat strange that I feel more comfortable sharing some personal information with people I’ve never met in the real world than with people I’ve met and know in real life.
As to sharing information or news about others, I rarely do that — or at least attribute it, on my blog or in real life — to the actual person. For example, I might reference a friend of mine who lost his or her job or who won the lottery, but I would never specify who that is…here on my blog or in the real world.