#WDYS — Pick Your Battles

“The last time you and your son had this conversation, you totally bungled it, creating an almost unrepairable fissure between the two of you,” my wife chided me.

“I’m sorry, but I’ve reached my upper limit with that kid,” I said. “I have been very patient in my efforts at matching his needs and ours, but nothing seems to get through to him. I’m at my wits’ end.”

“Honey, you need to pick your battles,” my wife said. “He’s still a kid and you and he need to come to an understanding. One day he will learn how to share and won’t eat all of the doughnuts and not leave any for you.”


Written for Sadje’s What Do You See? prompt. Photo credit: Jovan Vasiljević. Also for these daily prompts: Ragtag Daily Prompt (conversation), Your Daily Word Prompt (bungle), Fandango’s One-Word Challenge (fissure), The Daily Spur (upper), Word of the Day Challenge (matching), and My Vivid Blog (understanding).

K is for Krispy Kreme

C6866C27-DFF5-4155-BC32-70A702FE5325I grew up and spent much of my adult life in Dunkin’ Donuts country. My idea of the perfect doughnut was forged by the variety of delicious treats that graced the shelves of my local Dunkin’ Donuts establishment.

img_1199I loved to stop at Dunkin’ Donuts on my way to work for a cup of hot coffee and a doughnut. But I admit that I’d rarely tasted any other establishment’s doughnuts, so I had little by way of comparison.

Around 15 years ago I was on a business trip in North Carolina. An associate of mine who lived in the area picked me up early one morning at the hotel and, as we were driving to the meeting, I asked him if he knew where the nearest Dunkin’ Donuts was.

He gave me a quizzical look because he was unfamiliar with Dunkin’ Donuts. “You want to stop and get a doughnut?” he asked. “There’s a Krispy Kreme near here. We can stop there.”

img_1197I’d never heard of Krispy Kreme before, but since I hadn’t had time for coffee or to eat anything before he picked me up, I readily agreed.

“Ah, we’re in luck,” he said.

“How so?” I asked.

“Do you see that neon sign in the window?” he asked.

img_1198“Yeah,” I answered. “What does it mean?”

“It means that they just finished cooking up a fresh batch of glazed doughnuts,” he said. “Our timing is perfect.”

My world was rocked that morning. Never had I experienced anything as light and airy as a Krispy Kreme doughnut. It was like eating a sweet, delicious, glazed cloud.

Sorry Dunkin’. We had a good thing going, but your heavy, cakey doughnuts don’t cut it next to those incredibly delicious Krispy Kreme doughnuts. Especially when they’re fresh and hot from the cooker. Oh yum!