Question Time Over Coffee — 11/26 Edition

Rory, over at Earthly Comforts, has once again posed a number of intriguing questions this morning. Let’s see if I can come up with some equally intriguing answers.

You have a dinner party and may invite four guests from the following categories one fictional, one dead, one alive, and a naked chef [wearing an apron only but no clothes underneath – or if you wish for whatever reason your chef can be wearing underclothes – pants/top]. Who will you invite to eat, and who will you ask to cook for your dinner party?

Woo, this is a doozy. Let’s see. Fictional: James Bond. Dead: Sean Connery. Alive: Stephen Colbert. As to who will be the naked chef wearing nothing but an apron, I’d go with Beyoncé. I don’t know if she can cook, but watching her try wearing nothing but an apron would more than compensate.

Have you ever slept on / in a hammock?

Yes, I’ve fallen asleep while in a hammock once or twice.

Do you find it easy to maintain friendship with other people?

We’ve moved around a lot, so it has been challenging to maintain long distance relationships with close friends over long periods of time. Since we moved to our new house in 2020, just as the pandemic hit, it’s been difficult to make new friendships, even with our neighbors, with whom we’re essentially on a “Hi, how are you” level.

Are you a person of ethics? If so, how does that impact your daily life?

Despite the fact that a lot of people believe that atheists have no ethics, I consider myself to be a very ethical person. I can’t really say how it impacts my daily life as I know of no other way to be other than ethical.

Are you decisive or indecisive as a person?

It depends upon the magnitude and time sensitivity of the decision. If it’s a big decision, I’ll spend a lot of time and effort researching the options before making the decision. But once satisfied that I have all of the information I need, I will be decisive. If it’s a relatively inconsequential decision, I’m usually less decisive because I won’t have spent a lot of time on it, but I’ll just do whatever’s easier or quicker at the moment.

Why do people hold double standards?

Because people are innately egocentric and hold themselves to a different — could be higher, could be lower — standard than that to which they hold others.

What is your most unhealthiest but guiltiest pleasure and why?

I eat a half pint of Ben & Jerry’s Stephen Colbert’s Americone Dream ice cream almost every night.

What is your process of writing a new post for your blog?

I open up the WordPress iOS app on my iPhone and start tapping away on my virtual keypad.

If you were asked to create a Top Fifteen Book List holding books that you felt everyone should read at least once in their life and would never regret reading what titles would you include?

Wow, this is a tough one. Here are the 15 that immediately come to mind.

  • Tolkien’s “Lord of the Rings” trilogy and “The Hobbit.” Counts as four books
  • The first three books in Isaac Asimov’s “Foundation” series. Counts as three books
  • “Shogun” by James Clavell
  • “Tai-Pan” by James Clavell
  • “Rosemary’s Baby” by Ira Levin
  • “Watership Down” by Richard Adams
  • “Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” by Robert M. Pirsig
  • “The World According to Garp” by John Irving
  • “Catch 22” by Joseph Heller
  • “Catcher in the Rye” by J. D. Salinger

How important is it for you to know a person’s real name? [Be this online, off line, social media, or blogging]

In real life, very important. In blogging, not important at all. And I don’t participate in social media, so….

When at school what were your top five subjects that you were passionate about? Why was this – what did you love about them? Are those five subjects still present in your life today in any form?

History, social studies, civics, geography, and English lit. Why? I was more inclined to the liberal area and to the humanities at the time than I was toward science and math. And I would say that all of those subjects are still relevant in my life today, although in my later education, I did gravitate toward science.

Are you a photogenic person? Are you eager to appear in family or friend snaps? Are there many photographs of you from and over the various stages and ages of your life?

I’m not un- or non-photogenic and I don’t shy away from being photographed. But because I was mostly behind the camera taking the pictures, the vast majority of photos are of my wife and kids and friends, rather than of me.

With regard to the paranormal, do you choose to not believe because there is nothing to believe or because you feel it is safer to not believe? Are you a non-believer or a believer?

Paranormal, as I understand it, means beyond the scope of normal scientific understanding. Scientific understanding is always expanding, with new insights and discoveries occurring regularly. Thus, what might have been considered to be paranormal a few hundred years ago may, today, be within the scope of contemporary scientific understanding.

That said, I don’t really believe in the paranormal, per se, like telekinesis or clairvoyance. To the question, “Are you a non-believer or a believer?” my answer is that there are a lot of things I believe in. But when it comes to the existence of a supernatural, omnipresent, omnipotent being who created the universe, us, and every around us, I’m most definitely a non-believer.

How are you with meeting strangers/new people who might or could become new friends? Is there a process you adopt to identify if they are the right fit for you?

These days, I very rarely meet strangers and/or new people. In the event I would, though, I have no “process” I follow. There’s either commonality and chemistry or there’s not!

12 thoughts on “Question Time Over Coffee — 11/26 Edition

    • Fandango November 26, 2022 / 5:18 pm

      To some not so sensible questions. 😂

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  1. The Autistic Composter November 27, 2022 / 1:26 am

    Some cracking answers present here Fandango. Does eating a half pint – is it eating? Slurping, absorbing, drinking? Of ice cream impact you? Do you get pain in the middle of your back from the cold? Is it sugar free or a vegan product? How does your digestive system process potentially 3.5 pints of ice cream a week? I am fascinated by this response.

    I find l am the same with regards photos l am usually the one taking them and don’t like having my own taken which is why in the main l don’t snap away at people.

    Of your book list – Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” by Robert M. Pirsig is the only one l haven’t read 🙂

    Always appreciate your contributions – many thanks 🙂

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    • Fandango November 27, 2022 / 6:48 am

      I call it eating ice cream. The real stuff. Not sugar-free or vegan. Okay on digestive system as long as I have it at least 3 hours before going to sleep. It’s my guilty pleasure. What’s more to be said?

      I’m impressed that you read 14 of the 15 books on my list.

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