Fandango’s Flashback Friday — May 13th

Wouldn’t you like to expose your newer readers to some of your earlier posts that they might never have seen? Or remind your long term followers of posts that they might not remember? Each Friday I will publish a post I wrote on this exact date in a previous year.

How about you? Why don’t you reach back into your own archives and highlight a post that you wrote on this very date in a previous year? You can repost your Friday Flashback post on your blog and pingback to this post. Or you can just write a comment below with a link to the post you selected.

If you’ve been blogging for less than a year, go ahead and choose a post that you previously published on this day (the 13th) of any month within the past year and link to that post in a comment.


This was originally posted on May 13, 2011 on my old blog. This was written about 5 1/2 years before I retired, and I haven’t worn a tie since retiring.

The Tie as a Phallic Symbol

So what is the deal with ties? My extensive research confirmed that the tie is essentially a phallic symbol. I’m not kidding you. According to Rita Hutner in Catalogs.com, men’s neckties direct the viewer’s eyes downward toward the man’s genitals. Hutner claims, “the guy is subtly showing off.” Seriously, Rita?

In researching the history of ties I found out that ties first appeared in 221 BC when military men of China’s first emperor, Shin Huang Ti, were buried wearing neckties. Once you’re dead, though, I think even Rita Hutner would agree, it’s a little late to be drawing the eye toward your crotch.

It was in the 1600s when neckwear for men became somewhat fashionable in Europe after the Thirty Years’ War (1618-1648), when Croatian mercenaries wore small, knotted neckerchiefs. These “cravats” become a fashion craze in Paris. In 1784, Beau Brummel, an English authority on men’s fashion, associated a neck cloth with individuality and self-expression.

The modern necktie was born in the 1920s when a long, thin, easy to knot tie that would not come undone was introduced. And, up until a decade or so ago, the necktie continued to be the standard attire for white collar workers throughout the Western world. Until someone finally asked “why?” and casual, tieless attire became acceptable at the office.

Hold that thought. Corporate America appears to be reverting to “more traditional” dress codes. According to an article I recently read, “business sloppy” is out, and suits and ties are in. Oh damn!

When I work from home, which is most of the time, I obviously don’t put on a tie. Hell, half the time I work in my underwear. And on those relatively rare occasions when I do have to show my face at the office, I still don’t have to wear a tie. But lately I have been requested to wear a tie when I am going to see a prospective client, even at those companies that have embraced “business sloppy.”

I know you’re supposed to dress for the occasion, but seriously, folks, is it really such a good idea to wear an accessory that draws the eyes of those attending the meeting toward your genitals?

13 thoughts on “Fandango’s Flashback Friday — May 13th

  1. Mister Bump UK May 13, 2022 / 3:06 am

    That Beau Brummel thing sounds about right.

    I was very aware that at work I wore a navy or grey suit, a white shirt… standard attire for everybody and dull, dull, dull. My one chance to exporess my own character was with my tie. I’d think nothing of spending $100 on one, Versace or somesuch.

    But if you’ll pardon the pun, that woman is talking bollocks!

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  2. Pradeep May 13, 2022 / 6:10 am

    This is a lovely idea — the flashback post idea. Actually, I have thought about this. And I did put up a couple of old posts. I gave it as a link to the original post. I guess it’s a good idea to pursue.

    Regarding ties – my profession doesn’t require me to wear a tie at work. You have given throwback to the evolution of the men’s formal accessory. The new-age companies are very informal. The founders, MDs and CEOs are casually dressed most of the time.

    Pradeep from Time and Tide

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  3. leigha66 May 13, 2022 / 10:32 am

    Okay so if guys get a sports car to compensate… lets go with an extra long tie being a case of wishful thinking, know anyone who always wore an extra long red tie? 🤔

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  4. Marleen May 13, 2022 / 5:53 pm

    Three freewheeling cheers for Millie!

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  5. Carol anne May 15, 2022 / 1:35 am

    Lol really, a tie directs people to a mans crotch? Omg well, damn if I knew that!

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