The Monday Peeve — Technology

Every Monday, Paula Light, with her The Monday Peeve post, gives us an opportunity to vent or rant about something that pisses us off. Today my peeve is directed at technology that doesn’t work as it is supposed to.

From my perspective, when it comes to technology, 2020 has not been a good year, which is not at all surprising, since 2020 has been a particularly shitty year in most respects.

From a technology standpoint, WordPress launched its block editor and decommissioned its classic editor. It also released a buggy version 16 update to the iOS app for the iPhone, which won’t allow me to like or comment on a number of blog posts from the Reader. And other software apps have released upgrades that are anything but improvements over earlier versions.

The latest example of technological frustration for me has been going on for the past week. You may recall that at the end of last December I had surgery to remove a middle ear growth in my left ear. The surgery successfully removed the growth, but not before it destroyed a tiny bone in my middle ear that connects the ear drum to the inner ear. Without that tiny bone, sound waves that vibrate the ear drum don’t reach the inner ear, which means that sounds don’t reach the brain. As I result, I am deaf in my left ear.

This has created a problem between me and my wife. In order to hear the dialogue while we’re watching TV together, I have to turn the volume up. But my wife complains that it’s way too loud. We’ve tried close captions, but my wife finds them annoying and distracting. And I find that reading the text distracts from seeing what’s happening on screen. Further, closed captions don’t work very well for live TV, like cable news.

My wife suggested I get a device that would permit me to hear the audio through headphones while enabling her to hear the audio through our surround sound speakers.

I did some research and ended up buying this wireless headphones/transmitter set, which claims to work with virtually any TV, audio receiver, and cable box configuration.Well, maybe except mine. I admit that my configuration is complicated. I’ve got a wall-mounted hi-def TV that is connected via an HDMI cable in the wall to my stereo audio receiver, which then connects to my cable box.


I followed all of the detailed instructions that came with the device and everything seemed to be set up correctly. But I could either hear the audio through the headphones or via the speakers, but not through both at the same time.

I’ve had four calls with the tech support team from the makers of the wireless transmitter, but so far they have been unable to get the headphones and speakers to work simultaneously. This morning, after yet another hour on the phone, I was asked to send them pictures of the back of my TV, the connections on my audio receiver and those of my cable box. I was also asked to send photos of how my sound was configured on my TV’s settings.

I’ll give them one more chance to figure out how to get this technology to work as advertised. If not, I’ll send it back and hope my wife and I can figure out how to watch TV together so that I can hear and she doesn’t feel like she being blasted out of the room. Either that or one of us will be sent to our room to watch TV.

22 thoughts on “The Monday Peeve — Technology

  1. newepicauthor December 7, 2020 / 3:01 pm

    I bought a new Windows 10 desktop computer last year and it had an option of coming with an optical disk drive that was also a Blu-ray (read/write) player, so that is what I got. I finally bought a Blu-ray DVD and it would not play. I did some research on this issue and I discovered that I needed to download VLC media player, which I did. When I started up the VLC media player, I got this message:
    Blu-ray error:
    This Blu-ray Disc needs a library for AACS decoding, and your system does not have it.
    Your input can’t be opened:
    VLC is unable to open the MRL ‘bluray:///D:/’. Check the log for details.
    I searched for a fix and I found some other directions which were complex, but I followed them and it still didn’t work. The CD player plays discs but I am done f…ing around with that Blu-ray player and now I have to purchase a dedicated Blu-ray player to watch my new movie.

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    • Fandango December 7, 2020 / 3:14 pm

      Ah, technology. I bet you paid extra for that optical disk player.

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  2. slmret December 7, 2020 / 3:09 pm

    I have a friend wo iis profoundly deaf in both ears. Attached to each of 3 tv’s in his house is a headphone set similar to what you pictured, though each made by a different manufacturer. On all three, we can watch TV as you suggest, though I actually hear it almost as well through his headphones as through the regular sound!

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    • Fandango December 7, 2020 / 3:17 pm

      That my objective, but for some reason I can’t get the audio to work on the speakers AND the headphones at the same time.

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  3. James Pyles December 7, 2020 / 3:47 pm

    I’m sorry. I didn’t know that about your hearing.

    Fun fact. The first time I was an undergrad in the 1970s, I took a number of silent and foreign film classes. At the time UNLV had a foreign language requirement, but I discovered taking foreign film classes (which were subtitled) fulfilled the requirement. Since most people can read faster than a person can talk, in foreign and silent film classes, I actually forgot i was reading, so it was no chore at all.

    As my wife and I have gotten older, our taste in viewing material has diverged, so a lot of evenings she’ll watch her DVDs in the living room on the TV and I’ll watch my programs on my computer. It’s actually worse than that because while watching TV, she’ll also be viewing separate video content on her iPad which would drive me nuts.

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  4. rugby843 December 7, 2020 / 4:20 pm

    Very frustrating. Good luck. Just another stressed you don’t need.

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  5. Sadje December 7, 2020 / 7:28 pm

    Tech is all haywire this year. New updates are making things even more crazy.

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Taswegian1957 December 8, 2020 / 2:21 am

    You surprised me. I was all ready for another post about WordPress and iPhones. 🙂 I hope you can sort your audio problem out.

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  7. bushboy December 8, 2020 / 3:25 am

    I vote for separate rooms. This also saves discussion on what program or movie to watch.

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  8. leigha66 December 15, 2020 / 6:47 pm

    This has not been your year for tech. I hope they get it all straightened out.

    Liked by 1 person

  9. Carol anne December 20, 2020 / 6:20 pm

    technology can be a bloody nightmare! Did you figure it out? Hoping you did! ❤

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