SoCS — No Lack of Options

3BA9B1F3-0E9D-4B9E-AAE9-D7EDC49C0123For today’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompt, Linda G. Hill instructed us to “pick up the closest book to you when you sit down to write your post. Close your eyes, open the book, and place your finger on the page. Whatever word or phrase your finger lands on, write about it.”

These instructions for me are easier said than done. You see, the truth is that these days, the only books I read are ebooks on my Kindle app for my iPhone. Thus, picking up my iPhone, going to my Kindle app, closing my eyes, selecting and opening an ebook, and placing my finger on a word or a phrase on a page in that ebook is pretty close to impossible.

2B8F3844-9CD3-4E49-B615-22478763AC8DThe good news, though, is that my wife is reading a physical book, The View From Flyover Country, by Sarah Kendzior. So I reached over to my wife’s side of the bed, grabbed the book, closed my eyes, opened up the book, and placed my finger on a random page. When I opened my eyes, I saw that my finger was either pointing to the phrase, “Being a responsible parent means” or a section header that says, “Lack of Options.” I suppose that means that rather than having a lack of options, I actually have two options.

With that said, I shall now, as Linda instructed, write about how “being a responsible parent means” that you have a “lack of options.”

But wait. I don’t actually believe that. Do you? I think that there are plenty of options available to a responsible parent. For example, a responsible parent can help a kid with his or her homework, therein providing support and encourage as well as helping the kid to understand the concepts the homework is attempting to teach.

Conversely, a responsible parent can refuse to help a kid with his or her homework, in which case the parent is teaching self-reliance, independence, and taking personal responsibility for one’s assigned tasks. This option is especially useful when the homework involves higher mathematics that is well beyond anything the parent could possibly understand, much less assist with.

So what this exercise has proven to me is that being a responsible parent means that you just try and do the best you can and hope that your kids will live through whatever responsible parenting options you choose and will, at the end of the day, thrive.

7 thoughts on “SoCS — No Lack of Options

  1. Paula Light June 8, 2019 / 5:32 am

    Really like what you said here. According to some, I was the worst mom on earth. I did something so awful I should be too ashamed to say. There is only ONE way, according to some (many), and that is to… breastfeed. And I did not. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t really try since I didn’t really want to. And by some miracle, my kids are happy, healthy, successful adults now (28, 26), despite my terrible choice.

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    • Fandango June 8, 2019 / 6:24 am

      I was not breast fed and look at me. I’m fookin’ awesome! 😂

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  2. drtanya@saltedcaramel June 8, 2019 / 9:00 am

    I raised my kids freestyle.
    Without any strategy and they have turned out more or less okay
    So this post really spoke to me.

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    • Fandango June 8, 2019 / 9:11 am

      There’s no lack of options to being a good parent.


  3. J-Dub June 8, 2019 / 3:34 pm

    Sometimes I’m convinced we have nothing to do with how our kids turn out then I’m convinced everything bad was our fault. But as you aptly put, we do the best we can and hope they thrive.

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  4. Laura June 9, 2019 / 1:36 pm

    Funny how neither the options I chose when the kids were young nor the options I choose now have put them six feet under. Granted, I haven’t considered “stop feeding children” an actual option, but still…

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